So a few days ago I asked my father what he wanted for Father's day and he told me not to be a grandfather....I am almost 10 weeks pregnant with his first grandchild. ...it's not like I'm young I'm almost 20 I have a job 2 cars and my own house I'm engaged ....like I'm doing everything right in my opinion and he's just giving me a cold shoulder now....it hurts but my mom has been like a mom and a dad to me so I kinda don't care....but I mean my fiancés father passed away in 2011 and now my dad wants nothing to do with my kid so I guess my kid(s) won't have a grandpa....