Kill me please!

So I went to LD on Friday and I was only 1cm and 60% effaced. I had contractions all night and all day but nothing that concerned me. Last night I woke up like 6 times to pee and had a lot of pressure, at 4:30 I had cramps and major back pain which turned into contractions 4 mins apart 50 seconds. At 6 we went to LD and I was 2.5cm and 90% effaced. But my cervix didn't change when I was there so I got sent home with pain meds 😩 I'm about ready to break my own water this is so painful (jokes)