Okay so this may seem crazy but I just want to hear some input and opinions on my situation because some days I feel fine but other days I constantly question myself on every single detail about it for one I can't really tell you if he is my boyfriend he can't either but we've been talking for two years now. he's the one I've been having sex with and we spend all of our time together we talk from sun up to sun down even if we have just left each other it doesn't matter we are always talking to each other but sometimes I feel like if we can't even tell each other what this is why should I be doing everything to him and for him that I would do for my boyfriend or husband what's so crazy is that we do everything a couple would do and everyone else sees us as a couple but sometimes I feel like he's just afraid to put a label on it and we've talked about it before we've also agreed to stop having sex but it never works and he always tells me that we more than friends but I still don't know what that means should I stop with the sex and every thing else until we get a good understanding or just keep it going because I can see a future with this man and I just don't want to end up being a waste of time