What should I do???

Advice please! So I have been at work today 10am to 7pm, and it's my husbands day off, I get home and he has been at our next door neighbors all day literally since the morning until just now playing a game on his tv! I got home from work, cleaned the house, went grocery shopping and fixed tacos for dinner and I never even cook, I went over to the neighbors not once but twice to tell him to come spend time wit me and eat and I yelled at him the second time saying he won't spend the little free time he gets with me. But he comes back, yells at ME saying he never gets to have fun, and saying I control him. And I went outside to get some air and away from him and he locks me out so now I'm locked out and he came out once and flipped me off, god he's such an ass. Idk what to do, was I wrong? Am I controlling him? I just felt so alone cause I made food and ate by myself and feel like he doesn't wanna spend time with me   :(