RANT: Boyfriend not wanting to be around

He Dosent wanna come back to me until I actually head to the hospital to give birth THEN he will start driving back, plus I have to argue with him to stay a week after our son is born before heading back to South Dakota(4 hours away). 

But yesterday I was very angry and told him how difficult this was for me and how he shouldn't be away at the moment. So he said he would come back Sunday (today) but I told him no he should stay an extra day and spend Father's Day with his dad and come back Monday. Well now I asked him what time he would be driving back and he said he Doesn't know if he's coming anymore Bc he has to wait for a check and some papers?? He decided to tell me the night before he was suppose to come back.

I don't know anyone who has to force the father of their child to be around for their girlfriend and baby. It's ridiculous!!! I'm already going to move to South Dakota with him why can't he stay here with me another 2 weeks tops?? It's completely unfair and he's being super selfish. But he Dosent like it down here all he does is lay around and talk to ppl on his phone, I mean am I being to mean or over reacting? Or is it understandable why is want him to be here since I'm so close to my due date? HELP😫