So I've been with my bf for four years..he has a son and I've been around this kid for all these four years cos we live together. The kids mother isn't around so I'm basically his mum..take him to school every morning pick him up. I do everything. I recently had a daughter and the day I came back from the hospital after giving birth I was breastfeeding my baby and he was watching TV. His son had returned from school and came to me saying he was hungry. Since I was breastfeeding at that time I told him to go to daddy so he makes him something. Few hours later I needed something and called out to his son to get it for me cos I was occupied and my bf asked his son to sit down and not to get it..I asked him why he did that cos he's never done a thing like that before and he was like "you can't feed one child and leave the other"..the whole time he was mad that his son was hungry and I couldn't get up and make him something but I was feeding my daughter and I'm like he came to me when I was breastfeeding is it wrong to asked him to come to you..u weren't busy or anytn I can't do two things at the same time it wouldn't be harmful to help me..ever since I had my baby..there's been so many nights of less sleep I walk around like a zombie and still take care of his son while he play games all day without help from him..I wished that he would one day say let me help u out with the baby whiles u take a little nap..i have spoken to him before about it.all he does is take the baby for about 5 to 10 minutes. the minute she starts crying he gives her back. I never get a break and still taking care of the needs of his son too..don't get me wrong I don't have a problem taking care of him but a little help would be appreciated. For all these years he's never for once told me how great a mother I was to his son..never made me feel he appreciates what I do for his son but then one of my friends came to visit us and rocked my baby to sleep, he saw that and told her she would be a great mum someday something hez never said to me but the one mistake I do he criticize it. So this fathers day I did not wish him a happy fathers day I feel he doesn't deserve it.. The only money he spent on my daughter was 120 dollars for newborn clothes..everytn else I bought them..from crib to stroller.. He bought the baby a car seat without a stroller and I was carrying my baby to appointments with the car seat. I had to take money from his mom to buy a stroller to connect to the car seat..we went to target to look for a baby carrier. I was carrying the car seat as usual whiles he walks behind me..a lady walking by had to tell him to help me with the car seat before he attempted to..I feel like he doesn't deserve a fathers day wish..hes offended I never wished him. Do you guys think I was right for not wishing him