Horrible experience!

Lisa
I have just left my doctors office where I went today after getting what was seemingly a faint positive on a FRER. I had the same thing happen in March in which my period was a day or two late  and then followed by a "different" clotty AF-I suspect chemical. My doctor took one glance at my test, laughed and said "oh my god that's not even positive, that's a negative test." He refused to acknowledge he seen anything on the test at all. His medical assistant dipped my urine and 15 seconds later came out and looked at him shaking her head to say no, it took all I had to ask if the test was even done processing. He also is refusing to check for pregnancy with a blood test Only agreeing to check my progesterone level after I noticeably became upset. He also told me to go home and throw all of my ovulation tests away and that I WOULD ovulate on day 14 and anything that says differently is not true. 😣😔 I'm so ready to just give up! 
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Ev

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I see the line there!! Hate Drs like that. I wouldn't throw out ovulation sticks! They'll tell you when you're ovulating a lot better than the dr! What an abnoxios a**whole! Hope your okay, test again in a few days but I deff see a second line there!!!! 

Ev

Eve • Jun 20, 2016
I understand! That's awful and as for the attitude! There's a dr like that at my surgery! Hate her so much, won't go see her!! I'd think about getting a new dr personally. Don't know what else he's done! X

Li

Lisa • Jun 20, 2016
Just kind of nerve wracking that he's an ob/gyn.. Like what else is he doing or has done?

Su

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While I agree that your doctor is a jerk face, I'm not sure about that test. Did the pink line show up in the time frame? Those new curved FRERs have quite the reputation of bad evaps. And because their sensitivity is so low (as low as 6.3 I think) they can show a positive when a doctor really won't say it's positive until hcg levels are 25. Wait a few days and test again. And don't ditch your OPKs, ditch your doc. Good luck and baby dust 

Li

Lisa • Jun 20, 2016
I will not use them again. Most expensive with a reputation that is circling the drain. :)

Su

Summer • Jun 20, 2016
Humm ok. Yea unfortunately those tests aren't as reliable as they used to be. Definitely test again in a couple days tho. And I hope you find a doctor that treats you better :)

Li

Lisa • Jun 20, 2016
The pink line showed immediately-well before 3 minutes after taking. As it did in March also. There is no way it's an evap-but I wouldn't rule out defective tests, unfortunate that if it is I have had it happened twice. And he's lost this patient.

Da

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There's definitely a line there.

Da

Dayna • Jun 20, 2016
I could definitely understand that. I, personally, wouldn't use that doctor again. That's so unprofessional!

Li

Lisa • Jun 20, 2016
The picture really does it no justice either, in person it is very obviously pink. Hate how this appointment turned out.

Ka

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He is old school. I ovulated on day 19 when I got my BFP. 

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Angelina • Jun 21, 2016
Ditto! I ovulated on day 18/19 when I got my BFP. don't listen to that jerk; find a new doctor.

Li

Lisa • Jun 20, 2016
I'm pretty sure that is the problem.. Set in his ways. But it's time for me to set him free.lol

Fa

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My dr was the same way! She had the nerve to tell me these were negative!I was like ok I'm not gonna argue just send me for a blood test and what do you know I was 5 weeks pregnant! Drs can be assholes sometime I would definitely go somewhere else. But congrats cause there's a line there :)

Ki

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This happened to me when to A&E had pinching pains in my sides, hot flushes, felt dizzy, mild sore breasts, and I was constipated so badly, they asked me to come in so away I went they asked if I could be pregnant I said yes, he dipped it in for 2 seconds pulled it out and went definitely not pregnant. I felt so disheartened so I made a doctors appointment for bloods the following day.. The nurse I saw there kinda treated me as if a was young and stupid refused to do bloods done a test waited around 30 seconds and said definitely not pregnant.. I felt so stupid and young at that moment in time because of her so I pretended I was happy... Got out the door and burst in to tears and went and bought 4 pregnancy tests to test later on. Am 11 DPO and still got 5 days until AF is due so it could be am testing early but wow the medical field are so unprofessional and because am in my early 20s ttc I feel so stupid telling them.

Wh

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Wait and test later. With my first I had two in hospital/doctors office preg test both were negative they put me on birth control and I got very sick. I got very sick because I was actually pregnant

Ti

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Girl, find a new doctor. That's a positive test. 

Lo

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Your doctor sounds like a real ass hole. I say get a new one. No one should be made to feel that way.

Jo

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I see the line. I would get a new doctor someone with some actual bedside manner. You don't want to spend 9+ months with a doctor that has horrible bedside manner and can't take your feelings into account. Best of luck!