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Question

I know what an abortion is, I know how it works, but I'm closed minded about it when I see others bringing it up. I believe it's murder, but I want to be more accepting of it so I don't straight away think "this person is killing their baby by choice". Can someone please tell me from personal experience or just talk about what it does to the mother doing it? I know that many women get abortions because they are too young or financially unstable, but I can't stop the thought that they had sex so it's their fault anyway? I just don't want to be judgemental of others.

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Answer

My policy is that I have my own personal beliefs, informed by my faith, upbringing, experiences, and opinions. I can be true to those beliefs while still recognizing that I have no idea what someone else is going through and all the things that brought them to that point. I can't really judge a person for being somewhere I've never been and making decisions I'm lucky enough to have never had to make. Even if I know how I feel, the world is far from black and white and as a person with many flaws who makes mistakes all the time, I am in no position to act like I know better than someone else. We all do the best we can with the hand we were dealt. I need to feel good about the way I make my choices while remembering that's all anyone is trying to do, especially when it comes to this topic.

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I'm currently on the pill and take it as I should, i'm taking precautions to avoid pregnancy. If I were to become pregnant now I would have an abortion. This is because I do not have my own house, stable job and hardly any money. I don't think I should stop having sex with my boyfriend just because there's a 0.1% chance I could become pregnant

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