I don't even know where to begin honestly... I'll try not too confuse anybody....i started working at a dry cleaners about a month and a half ago, and about a month ago, we got a new driver, and i thought he was really cute. One of my friends (co worker), gave him my number and we ended up going out. It went great, have a lot in common, lots of laughs, the whole 9 yards. He went with me too take my daughter to my friend for the month of June. On the way back to where we live, we were at a rest area, and he turns too me and says "it's pretty safe to say we are dating now right?" I didn't know what to say, so i just said "sure?" But in reality i should have said no! Now mind you, he's an extremely sweet, caring, and loving person, i love it, but not him, just yet. He's already pulling the love card. Im like, no you need to back off! You can feel how you feel, but keep it too your self for a little bit longer. The spark between us isnt that strong, atleast not too me. He can be real clingy too which is only pushing me away. I've debated all day whether or not i even want a relationship. Im focusing on my 3, almost 4 year old, and ive enjoyed life better being single, then dating someone. Any advice? I've tried talking too him and even his room mate has tried and he won't listen to either one of us. He won't slow down.... I just can't do the clinginess and the obsessiveness.... What to do?