Venting. It's been a year since my husband and I have started to try and have a baby. It's so frustrating to see teenagers getting pregnant on accident and not know what to do. It's not fair that people who aren't ready for a baby are getting pregnant. My husband and I are both elementary school teachers. We adore children. We have two sons because of his first marriage. Even then she got pregnant both times on accident. I have a home, a husband, a job and faith but I am struggling.