People keep telling me I look great

Meg
I'm almost 36 weeks. I've thrown up over 1000 times and feel awful yet everyone at work is telling me how great I look. Basically society defines looking great as thin. I've actually lost weight this pregnancy and still have a sizable bump (which basically means the rest of my body shrank and all my muscle disappeared from lack of nutrition ). 
I'm the most unhealthy I've ever been in my life. Basically feel so weak that I sometimes wonder how I'm still alive. Sad realization what society values for beauty.