Annoying OB

I hate how nonchanlant my ob is. Everytime I have a concern he always says yea thats normal. Not even trying to investigate or understand exactly what I mean. I told him I get sharp shooting pains in my vagina I cant even walk or stand. Like ok I get it your a doctor and it very well might be normal but for some reason, perhaps its cause hes a male doctor who never been pregnant, I feel like he just doesnt understand. I wish he would take the time and ask me more questions about how I'm feeling then explain whats actually going on and why Im feeling this way.