My step mom said at first the bridesmaids can pick out their dresses just have to be the same color. And I found a dress in my price range. However now she is making everyone wear the same dress and it's super expensive and I cannot afford. On top of that the wedding will be next April and I'm having my baby in November. And the wedding will be across the country so that's 500 dollars out of my pocket. Also my step mom is not allowing me and the baby to stay at her place. So more money spent on a hotel for the weekend.

As much as I want to support my dad, I fianacially cannot do it.