Take the time to talk to your husband and find out more specifically what kind of security he's needing. Is there a number he has in mind? A specific goal he's wanting to achieve before baby comes along? Is he worried about losing you to a child? Really have a talk about it. Not just in passing. Don't undervalue the importance of family meetings just because there's only two of you. Maybe he wants to have a certain amount set aside for emergencies AND baby. If so, figure out what those numbers are and set a budget and a time line. Maybe he wants to buy a house first or get a promotion at work. Again, set a deadline. If he's worried about losing you involve him more in the "baby" talk. As him for his opinion on names, birthing techniques, etc. suggest a vacation just the two of you. Take a ton of photos. No baby talk, just enjoy being together. Take up a hobby. Schedule date nights that will continue even when baby comes. Use the time you have right now to get your body healthy, start taking prenatals, research providers and birthing centers, take a class on child development. You've been given a huge gift. The gift of time. You have time to prepare! Every mom realizes she didn't do enough to "get ready" for a baby. Offer to watch a friend's baby for the night so she and her beau can enjoy a full nights rest. Good luck!