Boyfriend NEVER pleasures me

My SO and I have now been living together for 7 months....and in that entire time he has attempted to make me orgasm maybe twice that I can recall, and even those times it didn't happen cuz "i take too long" and "his hand is tired". It is SO frustrating. I feel like I am the only one doing him sexual favors, it is constantly just me giving with no receiving at all, I hate it. Even when I've tried to address it nicely he gets upset and tells me I'm "insulting his sexual ability". It's not that he's not good, he's just LAZY and NEVER wants to touch me for me. He doesn't even like foreplay, he goes in dry 90% of the time. It makes me feel like he doesn't want me since I never get any one on one sexual time from him just for me, without his cumming being the main goal. I'd love advice on how to deal with this, it is taking a serious toll on our relationship