I have been craving intimacy from my husband for a while now. He wouldn't touch me with a 10 ft pole. I have talked to him about it and all he says is..make a move, but to be honest, I'm not confident enough to do that. I have gained weight and I don't feel attractive at all. I feel lonely and just plain bad. I still get compliments from strangers and it's flattering but it would mean so much more from my husband. I feel unattractive and it's because I'm getting fat. Does anybody have advice or in similar situations? I would sure love to hear some words of wisdom.