It's been 8weeks&5days , I thought giving birth was the scarey part but really after birth is the scariest , you don't wanna mess up ! You wanna do everything right , sometimes you forget that it's  a learning process for you both , learning ur baby cries " hungry , sleepy, pamper change, or just wants comfort" it takes time , adjusting to waking up different times of the night , or not getting any sleep at all , choosing between taking a shower or eating , cleaning or sleeping ..even when you have support its still ur duty to fulfill there every need . All my baby girl has to do is smile and all of that disappears I wouldn't change it for the world ! Now I know the true meaning of love👨‍👩‍👧 just don't get discourage