My daughter will be 8 weeks old tomorrow and my husband and I tried having sex for the first time tonight. I had some significant tearing during my vaginal delivery and specifically waited until the dr gave me the all clear. It was so painful that I couldn't even do it. It felt like everything was just so tight. After taking it super slow and trying for about 15 minutes we gave up. I also had this problem while I was pregnant. I was high risk and unable to have sex until my third trimester. When we finally could again, it was very painful. It's the same kind of pain now just a lot worse. Needless to say my husband is being a trooper. Is anyone else having this problem?