Cheated On
My boyfriend and I have had a bit of a tough past few months. He rolled his truck with me and his best friend in it, and every single one of my fellow first responders thought we were dead (it happened in my town, so my department showed up), then within weeks of that, I had a dance performance and fire school, graduation, the start of my EMT course, and he took on more work, so we weren't seeing eachother nearly as much as he'd have liked to.
Well, he cheated on me. There was a girl messaging him a few months back, I told him I didn't like her and he stopped messaging her, so she started following him around school (we were both in high school at the time) and finally got her way, and they made out. I've already gone through the denial and the blame and the anger and all that, and no I don't count him as innocent. I consider my relationship too important to let go after one thing. I have him another chance, and so far he hasn't trashed it. My issue is... how do I actually move past this? I haven't been able to make out with him since because I think of her.
He's made it clear that he was thinking with his dick and he regrets it, and no he's not just saying that. His actions prove it. I'm not stupid or naïve. But I don't know how!
Has anyone else ever been in this situation? I need advice!!!!
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