There are several discussions I have brought up numerous times with my SO (need more romance, pay attention to me, cuddle with me, etc) and he refuses to listen to me. After a long argument about it finally ensues and he tells me he's sorry I feel like he's really getting it this time and is going to make me feel like I'm an important part of his life but he doesn't. He goes right back to the same old act and I have no idea what to do. Been together for over a year and I just don't feel like i really mean something to him. I feel like he just throws me off to the side and I'm really tired of it. I cry alone about it all the time. I just don't know how to get him to understand that I'm not happy and that eventually this will cause me to leave him. I love him and don't want to do this but fuck I need something!