How do the pregnant ladies handle a very busy dad? My SO is a business owner plus we are in long distance relationship. If you think seeing him is hard try to talk to him! Very rare! I'm just hoping some ladies have tips on how to deal with this. Do u deal with all appointments and preparing for the baby on your own? Is it split? How do u be pregnant in a way as not to disturb him. I have so much to get done and I don't drive, he's always busy and I'm starting to feel like a burden. It's a terrible feeling.