My SO and I have been together off and on for 3 years. Our relationship was really great the last time we got back together. We have talked about getting married and what would happen if I ever became pregnant. I am 30 and he is 35. I have a 10 and 11 year old and he has a 4 year old. I was on the IUD for 10 years and ut was time to get it removed kast year, but my insurance BCBS NC was very slow to approve another one, so I got on seasonique (the pill---but you take it for 3 months before starting the sugar pills...so only 4 periods a year). In March I was about to run out of my second pack and had been on them for 5 1/2 months, so I made an appointment at my dr's office to get a refill and try again to get on the IUD. BUT I was 8 weeks pregnant. My SO was devastated, his mother had recently had 2 strokes and he was now taking care of her ..and didnt jnow how we could make this work. Neither of us agree with abortion and neither of us wanted an adoption that is far as we got with discussions on what to do because he stopped talking to me for 4 weeks. Then he came back into my life, has been helping me find a house, taking me in dates, letting me see his mom and daughter again...BUT on Monday he pretty much said that regardless of how happy he is with me that we are too different to raise a child together. I initiated a conversation yesterday saying that regardless of our differences that we could coparent and if he doesnt want to be with me anymore that doesn't change the fact that our daughter is best off with a father than not having one. But he doesnt see it that way.. ans btw his 4 year old daughter was unplanned and unwanted as well but he is an amazing father to her. I'm 6 months pregnant and don't know what to do. I am financially stable, Im purchasing a larger house with cash, and have a couple of really supportive friends, BUT I know what kind of harm it does to a child to not have a father...