He'd rather be single and pull girls? Than have a loyal girlfriend?

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So I've been with my boyfriend almost two months now.
Everything's been perfect, barley argued, always out doing things, going out! spending time together.. And his family and my family get on etc..
No faults to this relationship.
But, 3 days ago.. He said "I'm feeling unhappy, l will have to tell you in person. I can't text this but I've been unhappy for a week or two now "
So I met him, he voiced his opinion on what his boys have noticed.
Apparently his friends have noticed he's "changed" and he's not himself recently, so he now is debating on ending us..  Bare in mind all his mates are single.. 
Yesterday he told me "I'm fine. Just need a few days to get my head straight. We both care about eachother so we will get through this, it's just a rough patch."
Today.. 
He told me "I can't have fun anymore like I used to when I was single, I can't go out with the boys, get drunk, pull girls and have a laugh about it the next day"...

I don't know what to do, please let me know your opinions on this..
If it's ever happened to you?
Because I truly care about him and I am so so happy.
I know if this ends I'll just be searching for another him in everyone.😞

Accepted Answer

I've had cereal in my cupboard longer than your relationship. There shouldn't be rough patches in two months. If he's questioning it now it's honestly not worth trying to keep him around. I'd just break it off and not letting it drag on until you get really hurt. One day when he's ready to grow up he will realize how stupid he was.

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Sounds like he's not ready to grow up and commit.

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You can't force someone to want commitment. You've only been together two months and he's already having a hard time dealing with being in a relationship. That's a very short time together. This seems like a no-brainer to me.

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Move on and let him go. It's not worth it. He obviously isn't ready for a commitment and needs to grow up if he thinks pulling girls and laughing about it the next day is going to make him happy.
Save yourself further heartbreak and possible STDs if he's sleeping around that much

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He's not ready to be in a relationship. He should be ok with not "acting single" while being in relationship, so if he's not, I would move on to someone ready to be devoted....

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Maturity gap! You know what they say, if you love someone let them go. He will either realise that he wants the grown up relationship or he will go lose himself partying. Either way, the stress & onus is on him not you, let him sort his own shit out and don't waste your time, energy & emotions waiting for him to grow up.

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He doesn't seem as into you as you are in him and quite honestly he's not worth your time girl! If he doesn't want to give up his single life then you shouldn't sacrifice your happiness for him. There are plenty of fellas out there, go grab one that wants what you want!!

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He's really not ready for a relationship if he's that concerned about what his single friends think of his love life. He sounds immature. I know you don't want to break it off but there are nice guys out there that aren't afraid to commit. It's much more worth it to wait for that kind of relationship then to try and fight a losing battle with this one.

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Been there. There's no point being with someone who doesn't want to be with you. I'm assuming you're young. It'll hurt for a while but there is someone out there that will actually want you.

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Just let him go. Why fight to be with someone who wants to be single?

He'd rather be single and pull girls? Than have a loyal girlfriend?

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