Pregnant - BF doesn't want it, what should I do?

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My BF & I have only been dating about 4 months. I was on mini pill but missed one and have now found out I'm pregnant. OOPS. We're both in our early 30s, I have a child already so I know just how hard/easy that is on my own. I was planning on having a baby on my own in 1-2 years time before I met him.
BF's life is COMPLICATED at present. Big issue is that prior to meeting me his ex had been cheating on him with multiple other guys and fell pregnant, she has no idea who the biological father is & she's not due for a couple months yet so no resolution of that for a while. She has done so much to destroy his trust and has been very demanding of him. He's afraid.
He's a sweetheart and is trying to be supportive of me but it's just too much for him and he wants me to abort. I'm pro-choice and not religious at all, but I don't feel that aborting would be right for me right now. I'm not prepared to announce just to get some outside opinions, so I'm turning to you, what would you do?

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You already said you could do it on your own so I think you know what you're going to do. You can't make him want to be a father so keep the baby and leave him.

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I would keep my baby. He doesn't have to be involved if he doesn't want to, but maybe he'll come around after some time and things will work themselves out.

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I think you should keep it. I'm sure you're not going to put pressure on him & that'll help shed some different light than he knows on it all cuz like you said he's dealing with a lot with his ex & it's all he knows right now so his stress level is understandable. You wanted a baby anyways. It's your blessing. Congratulations!! Good luck!!

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Keep ya baby all that other stuff has nothing to do with you if he cares for u he'll be back around but don't make a choice u will regret in the long run

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I would keep. He's a grown ass man and if he couldn't deal with another baby he should keep it in his pants as yes, BC can fail. It's not his choice, why abort a baby you will love over a guy that may not stick around....

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😔😔😔 worse feeling in the world knowing u could be doing it alone, but you know it can be done, so do wat is best for you!!!

Pregnant - BF doesn't want it, what should I do?

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