So my boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year now. He's 31 and still lives at home and bows down to his parents. Long story short .. he still hasn't said those three magic words and it's tearing me down. His excuse is that he's not ready to say it yet. How in the world can't you be ready after a year? So I broke down. Super emotional lately. I didn't get as much as a sorry from him. I went to work and came back and he acted like nothing happened. I told him he could've at least been there for me to comfort me and spend the night with me but he wouldn't because I'm not his priority and his goddaughter just came up to visit for well over a couple weeks.