What irks me

Hillary
So I really dislike if I make a post. And I'm asking a question. I'm looking for answers. Advice. Help. 
And someone just writes , example" well I had it done and I'm perfectly fine" 
Did I ask you to tell me that your fine ? No. 
I had a bad experience with an epidural. And I was asking for alternatives and if anyone had used said alternitaves. I mentioned I'm 4 years pp and have bad back pain and cannot bend my lower back at all. So I didn't want to have another one done. 
And said members comment just irked the hell out of me and I didn't want to start a argument and be stupid. So I just wanna bitch about it here 
Like why do people feel the need to do shit like that. Honey I'm asking for Other options and people who had a general anastetic. Not for u to tell me that your epidural was awesome. Mine wasn't. Which is why I made this fucking post to ask for advice. 🔫🔫🔫🔫🔫🔫😡
Ugh if someone makes a post asking a question. Answer the question. Offer advice. 
Or just be like oh man that sucks I hope it works out for you. Don't undermine what we're asking because your experience was different.