Imo, sex is specific to the person. For me, I'm a very sexual person and sex doesn't have to mean being emotionally connected and in love. Being with my boyfriend, that's what sex is for me, emotions and love, because that's how I feel about him and that's how I feel when I do anything with him. Before the boyfriend that I'm with, I was very sexual with other people and I had no problem with that and I have no regrets because I had fun doing that. I've never had sex before, because I'm saving that for a special time, but I did do a lot of sexual things with a lot of people. If you only want to be with one person for the rest of your life, I say go for it. If you love sex and you love experiencing it with new people, then do it if it makes you happy. If you're with one person but you still want to have sex with other people with no emotional connection, then that's perfectly fine so long as both parties are okay with it. I don't think sex has to be one specific thing for all people, or even one specific thing for one person. For me, the way I feel about sex (for myself) has completely changed since I've been in a relationship, and I think that that's fine. So, that's how I feel. How do you feel?