Pixie Cuts

I was wondering how to style a pixie. I have had a pixie for a few months now and doesn't seem like I been doing it right. I use a volume mousse and heat protection then gel and hair spray to style. I use kukui oil shampoo/conditioner on my hair. I have natural curly, frizzy that gets oily fast.
I love having a pixie and it makes me feel so feminine/sexy. So I'd love to know how to style it 
-not my picture but what I'm gonna get my pixie trimmed as this-