Hey guys, I wanted your thoughts on something my fiancé said to me. He's the only guy I've ever been with sexually, he's been with lots of girls before me. I don't regret it, he's amazing. BUT, we where talking and he said something along the lines of "I made you a woman" because he's the one who took my virginity. I know he meant well and everything, but to be honest I was a grown ass woman as a virgin, I was as capable as ever while a virgin, I was as much of a woman as a virgin that I am now. And I don't think a woman's body count or her sexual status has anything to do with level of maturity or how capable she is or the way she should be treated.