Having a hard time on deciding

So I was telling my mom, I want the guy who help make my baby to be at the hospital while I give birth. My mom began to act childish saying if he's there then I'm not coming. He wants to come & I want him to be there but my mom is really making it an issue. I live with my mom by the way...she also told me don't let him meet his child
I don't know how to go about this