C-section or Natural?

So I know this might be a weird question and maybe even sound a bit petty but I'm legitimately curious and would like to know opinions. For women who have had babies naturally, did your lady bits change at all? You always hear people saying that it'll get stretched out and won't be the same but how true is that myth? I feel like this is something that isn't really talked about much. I'm going to have my first child and I'm not sure what to expect and what method of birth would be better? I'm weighing every option, pros and cons as well but this is something that I couldn't ever get an answer about. Is it better to birth naturally or c-section?