And then he laughed and said he's joking. But he recently told me he likes things up his butt. He has a whole stash of dildos. Which he never told me about until a year and a half into the relationship. He has strap ins and vibrators and all sorts of stuff. And he's submissive...ropes gags leashes etc...well anyways He could tell I took him kinda serious and kept saying he was kidding. I dropped it. A few hours passed and I said 'are you sure u were just kidding' and he said 'yes babe I was kidding'. But I got the feeling he was lying but maybe it's all in my head bc I'm all weirded out now... My exs were so manly and dominant. I loved it. I'm all confused now!!! Help me ladies...😱