Feel too small..

Everyday when I get asked how far I am. When I tell them 6 months I get scolded for how small I am. It's pretty annoying and frustrating. I have a 12 year old daughter who is on a traveling team and every weekend the parents sit back and talk crap about me. I was a teen mom and couldn't embrace the fact I was pregnant with my daughter and now I feel like I can't with this one after trying for 4 years because I'm getting judged. I know this is a dumb rant but it's just frustrating. My pre-weight was 111 and now I'm always the 122 so I am gaining weight...