In need of some serious advice
Okay ladies, so I am terribly known for going through my SO's phone. I have found stuff in the past where he was hiding girls under guy names and obviously I've become uneasy.
It's been months since I have found anything, up until the other night I found two numbers under one of his guy friends name. One area code was 210, the other was 734 (which is our area code), so I freaked out automatically and woke him up.
He changed his passcode and refused to tell me, which I got over quickly when he assured me it was nothing and I decided to believe him. I also changed my passcode.
He went to go change a radio station on my phone yesterday and when he asked for my passcode I kind of just looked at him and laughed and he was like "I changed mine so I could sleep, you probably changed yours to hide things", which the only thing I hid was the fact I told my guy best friend of 8 years (actually just best friends and SO knows that) what had happened.
After all that was said and done he eventually looked at me and told me his passcode, so I therefor told him mine..
The REAL advice here, I went through his phone again last night and found porn which I am perfectly okay with... But we don't have sex often and before I found it yesterday we had sex 3 times and he continued to tell me that he wanted to "save his sperm" which is why he won't have sex with me often, yet he watched porn twice before the three times of intercourse..
I'm feeling super insecure about it and I just don't like it at all. What would you ladies do or say because so far I've said nothing?
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