My sex life!!

My boyfriend hardly tries to have sex with me and we both don't have a bond where we can't resist each other! I am so sexually forstraighted if I have oral with him he is hard but when he starts to have sex with me he goes so floppy it's like he doesn't find me attractive at all. And whenever I do oral with him he cums in 5 seconds litually no sex life! It's so annoying what do I do?? 🙄 I want a bond with him doesn't seem like that's ever gonna happen in a million years! He thinks sex once a week is normal and if he cums in 5 seconds then it doesn't matter if I don't get anywhere as long as he's alright then tyrns over and goes to sleep. Is this normal? Or we just two different people?? 😕😭