I hate this. I've been in a relationship with my BF for 2 years but we've been having a lot of trouble for the past half year or more, to the point where I've often wanted to break up. And I totally am the biggest proponent for fidelity and honesty so I won't do anything or make any moves-- but I've kind of gained a crush for someone and found myself jealous tonight when he was flirting with another girl. I didn't realize the crush until I found that I was jealous. It's a totally involuntary crush and I haven't acted on it at all, but we've ended up in the same room because of mutual friends and I can't help it I guess. I just hate it because my BF and I ARE having problems, and these things make it that much harder. I'm just venting. Nothing is going to happen with this guy, and I'm going to avoid him now, but, yeah it's just an annoying situation. 😣