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This is great. Lol. I'm literally on here at 7am to vent about my bf too almost about the same exact thing. It's exhausting and overwhelming when you have to be up at all hours of the night and have these challenges with baby while they get to sleep a full 8 hours and carry on with their day not having to worry about the things mamas worry about! I was breastfeeding my son at 3am and wanting to punch my bf in the face.
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So fucking pissed off. I gave birth to your child and have had to sit in this hospital almost for 2 and a half days while you got to go home and sleep during the day...I've been dealing with breastfeeding issues and continuous nursing around the clock. I'm beyond tired, sore and he doesn't care. I can't sleep in same room with him becuase he snores. He has sleep apnea and wears a special mouth piece becuase of how bad his snoring is. (I'm an incredible light sleeper) I told him to please just go home for the night (5 minutes away) so I can sleep, I'm so delirious. But he wouldn't. Now I got only 1 hour of sleep as I sit here listening to him snore his ass off. How frustrating. I've had next to no sleep while in this place and here he is snoring away! Then he has the nerve last night to tell me to stop bitching when I woke him up for waking me up. Ugh!!!!!!!
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Haha men suck! My husband did I want to say 7 days of night feedings. I'm not breastfeeding anymore so the baby gets bottles. So yea granted the baby is basically sleeping through the night now bc he's 3 months old BUT even when he starts crying in the middle of the night I'm the one that gets up not him EVER! So yes MEN SUCK haha they don't get it! And they never will!
My husband stayed with me the first night I was induced but then didnt stay the night after I delivered. I delivered tuesday morning and he went home to sleep tuesday night. I was in the hospital mon theough friday with my little one. It was so hard because my feet and legs were so swollen. I kept tripling and smashing them then would cry in oain. It hurt to walk and to get up. Felt like my feet would explode. He came to visit weds for an hr then didnt come back until friday morning. Once he saw my feet he felt bad and bent over backwards to try to make me comfortable. At that point i was so ised to the pain but he was freakkng out. I know this is not what we like to do but maybe talk to him and tell him exactly what your needs are. As women we tend to suck it up and deal with it for our babies but hey if we dont have to suffer so much, then we shouldnt. I was trhing to be tough and not tell him i needed him becUse he had to go to work but if I could do it again i wouldve just told him straight out
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