Bowner

Me and my boyfriend for 1 year where laying down on the couch watching a movie. I was on one side and he was on the other, so our feet where by each others faces. So then I decided to move my body up a little bit amd put my leg around him but I touched his dick and I could not tell if it was a bowner or not. So do you think you can help me understand what a bowner feels like?