I don't know if I'm just hormonal or what but when I wake up in the morning I get up put my make up on, fix my hair get dressed and by that time my husband has got up as well to use the bathroom go outside to smoke an grab a drink. While he is doing that I have cleaned up his bedside where he has drinks sitting and a cereal bowl if he at something late that night and I have made the bed. I have to be at work by 8 him 10. When I get home from work there is cans again beside the bed. Clothes on the bed where he tried clothes on an didn't put them up, his night clothes in the bath room floor in front of the tub the blankets all wrinkled and pillows stroud on the bed where he lays across the bed to watch tv in the mornings. I have purposely put a kitchen size trash can in our bathroom which is connected to our bed room for when he has drinks. Am I over reacting when I mentally get pissed about this? He use to didn't do this an now that baby is on the way and he has started "putting on daddy weight" an consuming more drinks and food than usual he seems to have became a slob. When I talk to him about it he tells me he is sorry and feels bad that he puts more work on me. Am i the only one who experiences this?!