In your opinion..

Ugh no. He is 38 not dead!!  Go make babies. 

Never too old if you are able to care for them 

My husband is 40 gonna be 41 when his first child is born this December 

I'm 35 and my husband is 39. We're trying for baby #2

For him or you? I don't think there are any ill effects for men having kids late in life. For me, after 40 I would stop trying out of fear that my baby would have major health problems. Not saying it isn't okay for others, but that is my personal limit.

my dh was 54 when we had our first. im now 38 and hes turning 58 and we are ttc #2.