I'm currently 14w2d pregnant. My sister in law, who I call my sister and am very close to, was 1.5 weeks behind me. We have been so excited about being pregnant together. On our first pregnancies she was 6 mo behind me so this was such a joy to be pregnant at the same time. She's already had 2 good ultrasounds and has shared her info. I've had two good ones too and shared as well, though we both shared with each other immediately. Today she went into her OB for her NT test and found out the baby died 2 weeks ago. She's devastated. So am I. And now I feel horribly guilty that I'm still doing well and she is suffering. I've (thanks to God) never had a miscarriage. I'm lost as to what to say. I feel horrible and worry that being around me might be horribly painful for her now that I'm still pregnant. Can anyone who's had a miscarriage advise anything I can say or do to help her?  I've never felt like such shit for anyone in my life. I'm crushed for her.