Why oh why

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Why do alot of you white woman feel like you can speak on topics you have no real understanding of. Like police killing blacks. I see so many if he/she just complied he/she wouldnt be dead. Or if they weren't normal human with flaws they wouldnt get killed.  Oh she/he knew that would happen if they broke the law. And im just at a loss of words.😢 
   I see that there are more good cops then bad. Blah blah. We are not talking about the good cops. We are talking about the cops that see a teen skateboarding ! pull up on him  slam him to the ground and punch him an kick him,  put him in jail.for 20hrs  as a mother I do not care what color ,race ,sex or age you are. Right is right and wrong is wrong. Just seeing how you people feel I really couldnt ever let my children around people like that.
 Its scares the hell out me knowing that my daughter's are in harms way with people that secretly feel like just because my daughters are black they have no rights. If my daugher was a teen driving I have to worry that no lights go out because she could be killed. Or having to worry about my daughter's walking my dogs and people throwing things at them just because they are black.  All our children are in Danger,But more so black children and black men. All lives matter but black lifes are being taken like they are worthless. If you can make an excuses for these killing your part of the problem.  If you cannot see the whole picture then you cannot come up with a logical explanation.
    Stop speaking on issue's you have never been threw.or have no clear understanding. Not knowing is being ignorant don't be ignorant.

This what im talking about.if your not like this don't comment,because im not talking about a race as a whole.im talking about ppl not accepting what is really going on. But don't comment on my post to deflect what MY point is.if it's doesn't apply then go on about your day.  Don't make my post about you.

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You do know that people outside of the race can have a clear understanding too, right? Do we necessarily feel the fear? No. But we can still empathize with POC

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It's a current event, everyone is going to talk about it. I think it would be extremely disturbing if all white people didn't acknowledge it at all.

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OMG non-black people in the comments CALM DOWN. Did you not read the OP? She's basically saying not to criticize a situation you have no understanding of not that you aren't allowed to care about it or sympathize. 
There's a lot I could say about our system and how it's incredibly anti-black & how every white person benefits from anti-blackness (including me, cuz that's white privilege for ya) but y'all seem too thick-skulled to listen. 
If you REALLY want to support black friends and loved ones, check out this mini "how-to" guide about it. 
http://www.blackgirldangerous.org/2014/12/poc-solidarity-love-support-black-partner-trying-times/

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Why can't white people discuss these issues?  Do we not matter to you?  Do we not see the same news reports as you?  Do we not live in the same communities as you?? Because I am a minority in my community.  I know what's going on in the world.  My opinion matters.  Racism will only end when we work together and understand each other.  Telling someone because your not the same race you can't speak on the issue is making racism worse.

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Stop.

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Idk... I guess this post isn't really asking me I'd just like to say... I don't discuss white issues because it has nothing to do with me. I've been told I should only concern myself with the issues POC face. 🤗.

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Just because I'm white, doesn't mean I don't understand. There's been a number of race posts on here. White people get killed, black people get killed that's just how it is.

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So all the white people who are offended on here chose not to read the whole thing? Or need help with reading comprehension? because she clearly NEVER said you can't speak and don't be an ally. She just  said that you shouldn't be critiquing things you don't understand. Because if you truly understood you wouldn't be critiquing... She basically pulled a Jessie Williams, her point here was that if you don't have an established critique of our oppression you should not be critiquing those who do and their response to said oppression. If you aren't interested in ending our oppression and therefore only serve to uphold white supremacist institutions then sit down because  your opinion is not needed, welcomed or necessary for us to gain our freedom.

ALSO, true white allies are not offended by things like this. Her post or my comment because they know  where we are coming from and understand that these types of discussions are necessary. So if you are offended by any of this but claim to be an ally please evaluate yourself, your motivations, and your privilege please.

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I talk about it because I'm scared for my friends. The people I care about are scared. Why shouldn't we all be talking about it?

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So I guess if we're not black we just need to shut up right? Stop being allies and just let y'all deal with it? 
But then you're going to start complaining about how we don't help. 
Whites and others races may not feel what you're feeling, but we have eyes and brains and can see what happens. Everyone is entitled to an opinion.

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