How do I get my boyfriend to open to me? Anytime there's a bad situation whether we're on bad terms or if he's having a personal/family problem he never seems to open up to me. I wonder why & I don't know what to do because every time I try & ask about something he'll say nothing, don't worry about it & it doesn't matter. I'm trying all that I can to have a healthy relationship with him but it seems like I'm putting in effort & he's pulling away. I want our communication to get stronger but I have no idea how to do that of he's not talking. What do I do?