Could my vagina be too tight?

So, my ex and I tried to have sex but, it literally couldn't get in. We literally foreplayed and everything but I'd only be wet literally for a few seconds and then boom, I'm dried again. ( I'm a Virgin and I was trying for the first time) he said it felt like he was hitting a wall..we tried to use coconut oil and other stuff to help it slide in easier but, that didn't work either. I don't wanna try with a new guy because, I'm afraid that it might happen again.