Trying not to break down and cry

Toni
11 dpo and I have sore breast and nipples. I don't always get this before my period so I was hopeful. Now I am having cramping and small creamy brown discharge and I can just feel my period is about to start. I keep going to the bathroom to check because I'm like oh is this it but just the little brown stuff. This will be 7 months TTC for us and I'm really trying to keep my faith and trust it will happen when it is supposed to. 😔