So I just came from the body goals thread which was filled with skinny shaming instead of body positivity. I think women of all body types are beautiful, but for my own body i prefer to be thin. I'm glad that more plus size women are confident in their bodies, but why do so many bigger women feel like they have to shame smaller women? Why is it acceptable to tell a thin woman to eat a cheeseburger, when it's horrible to tell an obese woman to put the cheeseburger down? It's perfectly acceptable to say all men like curves, dogs like bones. What if fit women started saying real men like muscle, only dogs like fat? It is the same thing either way, it's saying one body is good and the other is ugly. It's not a body positive message at all. You shouldn't even be defining your body by what someone else finds attractive, it should be about what makes you feel good when you look in the mirror. If you actually feel good about your body, you shouldn't need to make someone else feel bad about theirs. All bodies are beautiful, no one should be made to feel less compared to someone else. I believe in body positivity, but this is not it.