When you & your SO first starting dating..

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Did one of you actually ask the other one to be your bf/gf? Or did you just sort of get together without actually saying the words "Will you be my bf/gf?" ? I'm just asking because I was "dating" a guy some months ago, and didn't know until about a month into it. I thought we were just Fuck buddies 😂. We have started umm "talking" again a few weeks ago, and I'm wondering if we are dating again? Lmao!

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Haha me and the bf don't remember. I do know when we first started talking we told each other we weren't ready for a relationship but then we were together within a couple days lol

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Nah don't play no games. Make sure at some point you ask if you're exclusive, otherwise you'll be over there upset if he ever starts talking to someone else or visa versa. A lot of times it's better to just be upfront with someone and ask :)

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Yeah unless we make it official I'm not assuming anything 😄

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My husband asked me the first time in high achool. After school. I was a junior and he was a senior. Lol then we broke up. Didn't speak after that. and months later he randomly called. We went out to have breakfast then 2 weeks later he asked me again after this harvest festival at his church in the parking lot. but this time he played a song for me and sang, saying "I swear this time I mean it" and I said yes of course 😊 lol sorry I just wrote our story. Unnecessary. Ha

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My now husband and I became exclusive about two ish weeks after we met. I'm not messing around. I want that conversation so we are both on the same page.

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We were friends/coworkers for about a month, then he asked me out. Neither one of us ever dated anyone else from that day on! Our 17th wedding anniversary is this Friday 💖💞

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My husband actually told me I was his girlfriend. Lol. We had been friends for years and seeing each other romantically for the third time. He introduced me to out of state family as his girlfriend and I asked him about it when we left. He told me he wasn't letting me get away again and hoped I was on the same page. I was. 😊

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I'm not sure if I should say that I asked him or what XD I just told him I had a crush on him (I was super nervous) and we got together after that.

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We met online & about 2 weeks in to our actually going out on in person dates (we were seeing each other every 2 or 3 days) I went to message him thru his okcupid profile & realized he had taken it down! I was like "sooo I take that to mean you'd like to date just me then?" :)

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This was our biggest issue when we first started dating. He didn't tell me we were exclusive. When he called me out for talking to other people while we're dating I was just dumbfounded. I was like "it would help to KNOW I'm dating someone." And he's just like "well we went out on a date, that means we're dating." Dating, yes. Exclusive, how was I supposed to.know!?!?! And he ticked me off so much, but he won my heart back in the end and ASKED me to be his girlfriend on date #2. Lol

When you & your SO first starting dating..

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