Hi everyone. So I posted yesterday about my finishing out that I have herpes. Thank you all for being so supportive! I truly appreciate it. I looked online but I got a little confused so I'm posting on here to get more insight. So how is sex with herpes? Mainly can I still have oral sex? Is it terrible of me to have sex without a condom? & etc. I do get sex without a condom is bad period, especially now that I have herpes. But (I hope this doesn't make me sound bad I'm honestly trying to just get an understanding) since both my boyfriend & I have herpes would it be safe to have sex w/o a condom? I am on birth control too. Any insight is greatly appreciated! & thank you to everyone for being there & so supportive of me💜