I'm really struggling

BrynnMnae

My new GYN started me on treatment for PCOS and Endometriosis. The only treatment, they say, is birth control, which doesn't make me feel comfortable. For years now, I've wanted to have a baby, which was probably prompted by a feeling I had that the longer I waited for pregnancy, it just wasn't going to happen. On top of this, my first GYN tested my blood for any signs of PCOS and told me the results came back negative. I told my new GYN this and she is under the belief that any female who is over weight qualifies for PCOS. I did look into the symptoms, and they do fit, but the sonograms they've done so many times in the last year also don't support the theory that I have PCOS. She thinks I have this combination because I have been in pain everyday for the last year in my lower abdomen where I get my cramps during my cycle and it's gotten to the point where I hurt so bad after being intimate with my husband. I'm scared that if it is the combination of those conditions that I may not be able to conceive, and it has me very depressed. My mom in law made it worse when I told her about it as we talk about almost everything. She said, "You didn't want kids anyway." She said this despite knowing that I have wanted kids for a long time now. The fact that she could say something so insensitive when she was told she would never have children herself is beyond me. Like how do you think you're helping me by saying that? I haven't been in a good place since that appointment.

Now that I've vented, are there any ladies with PCOS and Endometriosis who can tell me if they were able to conceive, or if you're able to try with these conditions?