Three days 😳😳😳😨😰

I'm currently three days away from when AF is supposed to come . To be honest I'm just scared to death. Ttc for my first and my so and I bd all my ovulation week so now I'm three days out and have made up my mind NOT to test until missed period bc I've jumped the gun the last 4 months and. Have been disappointed :( . I've had no symptoms except for a lot of heartburn which on the record my mom had very bad when she was pregnant ! So I'm so excited but so afraid ! Checking undies every little bit for signs of AF . Praying this is our month ! So anyb ideas on special ways to tell ur hubby ?? How did u tell him a way to keep my mind off the situation at hand .......